This Sunday

these are the four letter words I said today

I had a bit of a sad day today.  I still need help getting out of bed.  I have less pain than i did, but I am unsure about my transfers.  I am playing games on Facebook and enjoying the passing time when I get an invitation to chat from a guy who has been asking me to be with him (Date him and marry him) after 1 picture and 1 conversation.  I have asked him several times to back off.  He says he will but then starts it all over again. He wants to meet me, he wants to marry me, he thinks I'm sexy.  (There is only 1 picture of me on Facebook.  No make-up and wild hair. Yeah real sexy. ) No matter what I say this guy will not back off.  Every time I am on Facebook he is there.  I finally had to de-friend him and block him.

The whole concept of de-friending some one bothers me. Why would you wanna NOT be some one's friend?  In this day and age, and with cyber bullying and harassment being an issue,  action had to be taken to get rid of this fellow.  Looking back at some of our one sided conversations, I believe this is all a big joke to him.  The more uncomfortable he makes me, the more he likes it.  He thinks it's funny to see me freak out because I don't like it when men come on too strong.  If this is the case, this man does not want to be my friend and I am better off rid of him.

The really sad part of this is this man is supposed to be an adult.  If he would have tried to be my friend maybe we could have been friends but obviously that's not what he wants.  We always hear of online dating,The romantic side of us wants to hear all the great positive stories.  It's a shame that stories like this get me just a little more jaded.