Things are starting to settle down

Between the hurricane and my life in general I have been feeling like things are in a big disaster.  Though I he think I have found some help to prevent foreclosure, things are still proceeding in a bad way and mostly because the company that has my mortgage is so slow with the paperwork no one gets what they need until much later and then it's too late.  So just when I think I can put my anxieties aside and get a decent nights sleep for once something else stops it.  What do I do in this case?  I sit on the phone between mortgage companies and underwriters and lawyers.  I need customer service but I get transferred to collections.  I need answers to questions that no one knows the answers to.  I am really preparing to go to court and hoping it never has to happen.  (If my mortgage company would get off their A##, and send appropriate paperwork, I would be OK.)  I really am tired of limbo it's a bad place to be. 

I have dreams of getting a job and selling Avon and getting enough money to go back to school and becoming the areas best mediator.  If I can control my emotions better this is doable.  Mediation is a process where two people sit down with a third party and try to come to a solution that both parties can live with.  In order for mediation to work well, the mediator cannot take sides.  This is hard to do because we all have our personal opinions and beliefs.  I love mediation and have seen it work well.  I have also seen it go bad and when it goes bad IT goes BAD,  If you are a mediator you must respect the process.  But people have their own views of things and sometimes they flat out lie.  Other times the solution is right in front of you and the people involved are too close to see it.  Mediation can be done in divorce child custody, Americans with Disabilities Act cases and any sort of family conflict you can dream of.  I have mediated some practice cases and got good feedback.  It is like teaching for me and takes a lot of my energy.  If I do work out this house issue and go back to school it will be hard work.  School has always been the place that I go when I hit rough patches in my life.  This one has been the roughest.  I am ready for a smoother road.  Even if the road is a bit uphill.  Take care  Buy Avon